
Focus Pocus
My daughter can get so focused on her drawing that she can't hear me
call her for dinner the first four times, until I go whisper directly
into her ear. During lots of other less-than-favorite activities,
however, she and the rest of our family often have a bit of trouble
staying in the proverbial zone. We call it Pinball Disease in our
house--bouncing back and forth between tasks or activities, and an hour
will pass with absolutely nothing to show for it. (This applies to
grownups doing tax preparation as well as to kids picking up toys.)
Like any other skill, focus improves with practice, and balancing
poses in yoga are excellent for developing it. And particularly for
kids, concentration becomes extremely important when academics get to
be the real deal.
These poses are challenging and fun for kids to practice. For all
three, encourage kids to find a focal point to concentrate on during
the pose, such as a certain spot or picture on the wall in front of
them.
BIRD ON A MOUNTAIN: Have your child stand in Mountain
Pose (feet close together, legs strong, arms at sides, body tall and
solid like a mountain) while you flap your hands around her and tweet
like a bird. Challenge her to stand tall and strong, focusing on her
spot, while you do this and not be distracted by your goofiness. Then
switch places, and she gets to do it to you!
FLAMINGO POSE: Begin in Mountain
Pose. Slowly, lift your right leg up, knee bent, until your right thigh
is parallel to the floor. Bring your arms out wide at your sides, and
slowly, gracefully, flap your big, beautiful wings. Concentrate on your
focal point, hold for a few big breaths in and out, then step down and
try the other side.
DANCER POSE: Begin in Mountain
Pose. Bend the left knee and see if you can reach back and hold the
inside of the left foot with the left hand. This is challenging
enough--but if you want to go further, (your child can hold on to you
or have one hand on the wall) see if you can lean forward and kick that
foot out and up behind you. Look forward at your focal point as you try
a slow count of 5, and next time see if you can make it to 10.
(Please comment if you have ideas of your own--I'd love to hear how you help your kids stay focused!)
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